Christmas 1986 ~ Stille Nacht

This time of year always brings back memories I thought were long lost. As I was driving to work this morning, I heard this song and instantly remembered Christmas of 1986. I was 19 and still living at home with my parents. The evening I recall was a week night, dark and cold. I had been all over town looking for the big seller that year to give as a gift, Trivial Pursuit. I was pretty down that I couldn’t find the game anywhere. My Dad suggested he and I drive to Davidson Drugs at Midtown Plaza, “hopefully, they will have it!” He and I loaded up into his Toyota truck and he drove me there. It was my lucky day! There, on the shelf, was the box I had been looking for. I was so happy they had it! I paid for it and we headed home. On the way, Stille Nacht came on the radio and I had such a complete feeling of love in that moment with and for my Dad. He had taken the time out of his busy day to make me his priority, even with everything going on between work and my Grandfather. At the time, Grandpa had not been well and passed not long after Christmas. I still remember hearing this beautiful song and seeing all the lovely Christmas lights….next to my Dad, just he and I. A very vivid memory for me that I recall with complete detail 33 years later. You know, I don’t need a single thing this Christmas. All I need are the beautiful memories that fill my ❤.

Thank you, Dad….I love you.

Stille Nacht

Tell us the Play-doh Story!

Remember when we were kids, and Mom or Dad had that one story that we just loved to hear over and over again?  For me, there are two stories that my Dad tells that fit that bill for me. One is about my Grandma Johnson being shot in the posterior region with a BB gun and who may or may not have pulled the trigger. The other story is about Bobby and the Pig & Whistle. I could listen to every detail of these stories over and over and never tire of it.

My family tries to get together every so often, and when we do, we love to have a bonfire in the evening. Inevitably, amidst the crackling of the fire and the stories and laughter, the kids (my daughter Carly, and her cousins) will say “Tell us the Play-doh Story!”.  And so, the ritual continues on as I share it with you…

I was born and raised in Melbourne, Florida, until I was a little older than 11. We lived in a small house in the back of our subdivision on Ixora Park Drive. I shared a room with my older sister, Pam. I can still see that room – our beds were covered in pink and white checkered gingham with shelves wrapped in the same matching print above each.

While I lived in Melbourne, I was proud to be a part of the Brownies (precursor to Girl Scouts) and my troop met down the street from my home. We must have had a badge project that day that included making homemade play-doh. I was quite proud of how well my large batch of goo turned out and I brought it home to show my older sister. That evening, after being tucked in for bed, my sister and I found that if you threw a piece of play-doh on the ceiling, it would stick! We delighted in this scientific marvel and continued laughing and throwing until the entire batch of play-doh was attached to our bedroom ceiling.

Well, I’m afraid we couldn’t keep our giggles contained quietly behind our bedroom door, because at some point, my Dad came into the room to see what all the commotion was about. As Dad stood just inside our bedroom illuminated by the soft light of the living room lamp, my sister and I could see the shadow of one looooooong strand of play-doh hanging just above Dad’s head. Suddenly, the idea of throwing play-doh on the ceiling didn’t seem like such a great idea anymore.

We held our breath and exclaimed. “Yes, Daddy, we’ll be good! Good night!” Anything to get him out of the room and out from underneath our misbehavior! The longer he stood looking at us, the longer the piece of play-doh stretched. And then….it happened. That piece hanging for what seemed like eternity fell right atop Dad’s flat top. Dad threw on the bedroom switch and turned his eyes to the ceiling…and the rest is history.

I believe the punishment for that little escapade was 500 handwritten lines of…

I will not play after bedtime.
I will not play after bedtime.
I will not play after bedtime.
I will not play after bedtime.

The memory of that adventure is as vivid in my mind as this morning’s breakfast…

I miss that house and the memories we made inside. Oh, if only the walls could talk! But those memories of our home in Melbourne live on in our stories as we share them with others.

Dara<3

 

My childhood home in Melbourne. The room I shared with my sister is the window behind the tree and to the left of the front door.